When I was 5, I learned that things die, and I immediately began to panic, and then, because I was a budding writer, I figured out a wonderful story about what I thought was true. You go to Heaven after death, I somehow knew, and for every good thing you…

Crucial craft advice from the novel-writing trenches

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Talking about those dual time lines.

Recently on Twitter, I was asking…oh okay, I was really whining in panic…about how to make dual timelines work. I have tried Post Its (they get lost). I have tried index cards (I cannot read my handwriting.) …

And why I’m no longer living by them

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I was in my twenties when I first encountered devastating grief. Two weeks before I was to be married, my healthy, young fiancé woke up in the middle of the night and then immediately died of a heart attack in my arms. I collapsed into hysterical grief. I couldn’t eat…


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